Whether it’s your oldest child or youngest child going to college, these questions will put your mind at ease.
It’s an exciting – and let’s be honest, slightly nerve-wracking – season. Your baby, whether it’s your firstborn or your youngest, is officially college-bound. For many families, this means your child will be living away from home for the first time. Cue the questions.
From campus safety and dorm life to dining options and financial transparency, there’s a lot to consider. But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Here are some smart, mom-approved questions to ask on college tours to help you and your child feel confident about the next big step.
Safety and Security
When your child is living away from home, peace of mind starts with knowing they’re safe. These questions help you assess how seriously the campus takes student security.
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What safety measures are in place on campus and in dorms (e.g., keycard access, security patrols)?
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Is there a campus police department or emergency response system, and how quickly do they respond?
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Are blue light emergency stations available and well-maintained across campus?
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What is the surrounding neighborhood like in terms of safety, especially at night?
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Are there late-night transportation options like shuttles or safe-walk programs?
Dorm Life and Housing
Dorms are more than just a place to sleep. They’re where your child will build friendships, study and decompress. Here are some questions to ask on college tours to get a feel for their future home.
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What are the dorm options for freshmen – traditional, suite-style, or apartment?
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Are dorms co-ed or single-gender, and how are roommates assigned?
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What amenities are included (laundry, kitchen access, study lounges)?
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Are there Resident Assistants (RAs), and what role do they play in student life?
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Can parents visit or stay nearby during move-in or emergencies?
Dining and Wellness
Your child’s health and happiness are closely tied to how they eat and how they’re supported emotionally. These questions cover both.
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What meal plans are available, and do they accommodate allergies or dietary restrictions?
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Are there healthy food options on campus and nearby?
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What mental health resources are offered – counseling, peer support, wellness programs?
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Are fitness centers or wellness classes included in student fees?
Career Prep and Internships
We know it seems far off, but you shouldn’t just think about the next four years – you need to think about what comes after. These questions help you gauge how well the school prepares students for real-world success.
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What career services are available – resume help, interview prep, job fairs?
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Are internships built into the curriculum or encouraged?
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What percentage of graduates find jobs within six months?
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Are alumni networks active and accessible for mentoring or job connections?
Financial Transparency
College is a major investment. These questions help you uncover the true cost and understand what financial support – both for you and for your child – is available.
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What hidden fees should we know about (lab fees, parking, printing)?
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Are there scholarships for current students, not just incoming freshmen?
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What’s the process for appealing financial aid if circumstances change?
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Are work-study opportunities available, and how competitive are they?
Emotional Fit and Campus Culture
Beyond academics and logistics, you want your child to feel like they belong. These are questions to ask on college tours to help you get a sense of the vibe and values of the campus.
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What do students do on weekends – do many of them go home?
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How inclusive is the campus for diverse backgrounds and beliefs?
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What traditions or events make this school feel like home?
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Are there clubs or organizations that match your child’s interests?
While this may feel like an overwhelming time, remember – it’s just as emotional and exciting for your child. Take this opportunity to explore each campus together, ask questions and discover the environment that best fits their interests, goals and future. And don’t forget to enjoy the journey. Visiting colleges, exploring new cities and imagining all the possibilities ahead is a special experience for both of you. They’re stepping into their next chapter – and so are you. Whether they end up 10 miles or 100 miles from home, they’re always just a phone call or FaceTime away.