ChristineMcGrath

Christine is Wives and Moms of Long Island's blogger. She's been a wife and a stepmom since 2018. And she's the best dog mom!
What I Wish I Knew Before Combining Finances
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What I Wish I Knew Before Combining Finances

Combining finances is a big step, and knowing what to expect makes it way less chaotic. I wish I could tell you that I remember exactly how my husband and I combined finances, like some big, dramatic moment where we sat down with spreadsheets and made responsible adult decisions. But no. It was forever ago, […]

I Can’t Pay My Mortgage…What’s Next?
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I Can’t Pay My Mortgage…What’s Next?

If you’re struggling to keep up with your mortgage, you’re not alone — and you have more options than you think. Wives and Moms of Long Island are not legal, financial or mortgage professionals. This article is for general informational purposes only. For personalized guidance, please contact a licensed attorney, financial advisor or HUD‑approved housing […]

What I Wish I Knew Before Switching Jobs
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What I Wish I Knew Before Switching Jobs

Starting a new job can feel exciting, overwhelming and a little intimidating, here’s what I wish I knew before making the switch. Whether it’s been a few years or a few decades since you last changed jobs, there are parts of starting somewhere new that always feel the same. Walking into a different building, meeting […]

My Husband Has a “Work Wife.” Am I Overreacting?
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My Husband Has a “Work Wife.” Am I Overreacting?

In Wives and Moms’ monthly “Am I Overreacting?” series, we answer an anonymous submission asking that question. Here’s what we think — how about you? Dear Wives and Moms, My husband has a ‘work wife.’ I know that people joke around about their coworkers because of how close they can get. But I honestly had […]

What I Wish I Knew Before Throwing a Big Party
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What I Wish I Knew Before Throwing a Big Party

Even if you love throwing parties, there are a few things you should consider to make sure your event goes off without a hitch. There are people who adore hosting — the ones who get a thrill out of planning menus, curating playlists and seeing their backyard transform into a full‑blown fiesta.  And then there […]

What I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Workout Program
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What I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Workout Program

Knowing a few key things before you start a workout program can help you begin your fitness journey with confidence.   Taking time to work on yourself is important. And a good way to do that is by getting into a solid workout routine. But there are so many different programs, styles and ways to […]

Questions to Ask: Before Signing A Prenup
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Questions to Ask: Before Signing A Prenup

A prenup isn’t just a legal document, it’s a conversation about your future, your values and your partnership. Talking about a prenup before your wedding can feel intimidating, but it’s becoming more and more common for couples who want clarity, fairness and transparency as they build a life together.  A prenup, or prenuptial agreement, is […]

My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary…Am I Overreacting?
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My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary…Am I Overreacting?

In Wives and Moms’ monthly “Am I Overreacting?” series, we answer an anonymous submission asking that question. Here’s what we think — how about you? Dear Wives and Moms, We’ve been married for 10 years. We have two kids in elementary school. And yes, we can forget little things each day because of their schedules. […]

My House Just Flooded … What’s Next?
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My House Just Flooded … What’s Next?

A clear, step‑by‑step guide to help you take control when water hits your home. When water suddenly starts pouring into your home – from a storm, a burst pipe or a failed sump pump – it can be overwhelming, messy and even a little terrifying. Once the initial panic settles, you’ll be left staring at […]

I Just Got Divorced…What’s Next
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I Just Got Divorced…What’s Next

Here are some things to think about as you navigate this next chapter. Ending a marriage is never easy, no matter the reason. Once those papers are signed, it can be hard to keep track of what comes next. From sorting out finances to possibly changing your name, the to-do list can feel overwhelming, especially […]